Wednesday, July 18, 2018

Change of plans

We were supposed to be arriving in Iceland tonight.  Due to some severe thunderstorms and mid July being a really popular time to travel apparently, we could not get any flights to work out.  Even if the standby lists had looked okay they would quickly be adjusted to try to find seats for all the paying customers who missed their flights because of the weather.  Quite a few were canceled out of Richmond and Mark had some canceled at CHO last night.  I packed and repacked suitcases for Jared, Lydia and myself 3 times in the last 24 hours.  Mark came up with several different plans and now we have a new one which looks like it will work.  About a year ago I was talking with a friend who has been living in Canada for the last 10+ years and she mentioned how pretty Banff National Park was.  It has been on my radar since then.  Mark looked up flight plans and we are now attempting to go there (with his Mom) instead of Iceland.  We do hope to get to Iceland but I think we will push is back to the Fall and hope we can see the Northern Lights as we would not have been able to see them now.   So maybe we will make it to Canada tomorrow or maybe we won't and I will unpack suitcases again.

We have been trying to cross a few more items off our Summer fun list.  On Sunday we had our edible Play Doh day.  We made PB play doh, Birthday Cake Play Doh and Kool Aid Play doh.  My Mom made PB play doh for us frequently while I was growing up but I think I have only done it once with Jared and Lydia.  It was my favorite.  They liked the birthday cake one the best and nobody liked the Kool Aid Play Doh.  It was pretty fun.  They both loved that they could eat it as they played and created.  It helped them practice more cooking skills too.






Jared and I went on our own date to Carter Mountain on Monday.  I needed to stop and get gas in my car and got completely lost after filling up the car.  I am so used to getting there from our house that going from a different spot through me way off.  Eventually we found our way there and were only about 7 minutes late.  We missed the story but after Jared finished his craft all the people who were later than us still had to finish so we read the story together.  It was about an astronaut and they made pretty fun helmets.  We were rather hot on the hay ride, I really associate them more with Fall not Summer but Jared liked it.  He was happy to pick out his own 5 peaches and loved the ice cream.  It was nice to go out with him.  He has been really pleasant all Summer which has been lovely.





Today we visited the new Splash park in town.   Its actually only 5 minutes away from the other splash park in town which I think is pretty silly.  This playground (Tonseler) is 25 minutes away and while I don't mind driving there a few times to play it would have been nice if they built the new splash park in a more centralized area if they were going to the trouble to build another one.  It goes back to the whole city/county thing which I still think is unnecessary.  The city of Charlottesville is totally winning in the water recreation department.  I actually think they other splash park is better.  It has more water features and more shade for people to sit in and now we know.  This park does have a fun playground and Jared and Lydia were happy to go between the water and the playground.  We met up with a new family in our ward and enjoyed getting to know them more and tell them about some of our favorite things in Charlottesville.  I have felt like a bit of a slacker with new families because we have been traveling more this Summer and look forward to getting to know them.

 

 

Saturday, July 14, 2018

Summer Fun List 2018




Since we got home from California (July 05th) we have been working hard on our Summer fun list. From July 05th - 18th is the longest stretch of consecutive days we will be home for Summer this year.  We have a good long stretch planned for the 2 weeks before school starts but its been a busy 5 weeks.  It hasn't been all fun and games though.  Since we got back from California we have been trying to get all the loose ends tied up on our basement, yeah its still not done.  But its so close!  Hopefully by Monday it will be done and it looks great!  We are waiting on carpets to dry or I would be working on it right now!

Back to the list, in the last 9 days we have checked off 8 items and added in some other fun outings.  I really enjoy making these Summer lists.  I often feel overwhelmed by the length of Summer break. The idea of all this empty time stresses me out.  I don't like to do so many things every day but I like to get out or have some structure in the day and it helps us all make fun, pretty easy memories together.  We started with a bike ride and water hike last Saturday.  It was a beautiful 79 degrees no humidity day.  We were so grateful for it. We actually started the day at our ward pancake breakfast.  Mark went to the church early to make sure everyone was good and we when got there later I was so surprised that they had set everything up inside.  I guess people were concerned about the wind?  It was a fine activity but I was anxious to get outside.  There were really a lot of people out of town plus so many people have moved.  I'm interested to see who else is coming this Summer and how our ward will be in the Fall.  Back to the list again.

We went back to Sugar Hollow as we know its an easy hike with great rewards.  Anytime I've gone there I've thought, "we should totally bring our bikes here."  I was really excited we were finally doing it but Lydia has lost all of her confidence in her bike riding skills.  She fell off her bike in April and while I'm sure it hurt it wasn't so awful but since then she has been very opposed to bike riding.  We made her go anyway, she did not enjoy it but toughed it out.  Hopefully with some good practice this Fall in the nicer weather she will find joy in riding bikes again.  We biked and enjoyed the beautiful scenery then headed up the road to the hike. This is a really popular spot and with the beautiful weather we knew there would be lots of people there.  There is a parking lot but it was all full by the time we arrived.  The street becomes a narrow one way road when the lot if full so finding a spot to park took some good skills on Mark's part but he did well.  Parking was a whole lot easier than trying to leave.  More people had arrived and more people were leaving so lots of people had to back up to let cars through.  It was kind of a nightmare but at the same time people were really generous and patient and helpful.  It was great to see people not freaking out.  Last time we must have gone on a weekday.  The actual swimming hole was not that crowded at all, just a few families enjoying it.  There are other hikes people can go which we haven't done which helps spread people out.  Maybe next year we will try the longer one.  It was a great outing.







The following Monday we drove up to Staunton to go swimming.  The pool at Staunton is our favorite local swimming pool.  It's so well maintained and feels so clean.  It never feels too crowded and the slides are great.  We stopped to eat at the same diner we went to last year and had a great day at the pool.  This is the pool where Lydia learned to dive last year and she did a great job here again too.  They are both great swimmers but she will stay in the pool for as long as possible.  Jared spent some time laying on the side bit in his defense he was getting over a cold he picked up in California.



It's fun to order our food over the phone.  
This place really doesn't seem to have changed since it opened in the 50's. 
The same family still owns and operates it. 



Tuesday started with Mark and Lydia going on a date to pick peaches at Carter Mountain while Jared attended a computer camp offered through the school district and I stayed home and painted door frames and baseboards in the basement.  Mark really wanted to go pick peaches but they are in between picking sessions.  Lydia just wanted peach ice cream so they headed up to Carters to find some.  Once she got her ice cream (at 9:30 in the morning) a member of the staff came over and told Mark about the Children's curiosity activities.  At 10:00 on Mondays and Tuesdays they read a story, do a craft, go on a hay ride, pick 5 peaches and get an ice cream cone. Mark decided it would be worth it and they had a great time.  I think he or I will take Jared on Monday. 

The camp Jared attended is called Coder Dojo.  It offers kids a chance to learn all kinds computer skills.  Coding and 3-D printing and adding music to things (and some minecraft playing which Jared (and myself) really know nothing about).  All those things I think you are supposed to expose your children to but neither Mark nor I are particularly interested in or have any background in.  Lots of STEM opportunities.  There are lots of cool classes offered from what I can tell.  I had Jared go after he finished Kindergarten and it was way over his head.  So we skipped it last year.  After talking to a friend I decided to have him try it again and he had a more useful/pleasant experience.  He loved taking apart the computers and learning what they are made with.  He got to smash one with a screwdriver which was his favorite activity.  I still think he kind of missed the point of learning some skills and how its useful but he is not really all that interested in computers at this point and I good with that.   I am glad he was exposed to some new ideas and if he wants to go next year we will let him its just not a huge  interest or part of our lives.  


Throughout the week kids are encouraged to make something out of the computer parts.  Then on the last day families are invited to see what they made.  He took off all the keys and put them in alphabetical order.  I am certain there is a reason why they are in the order they are, word spelling and combination of letter usage or something but I love that he decided to change it to make it more in order.  I think he has a little bit of me in him.  He had a good week but I think he wold have been fine with 3 days instead of the 4.  

One happy girl. 



 After lunch we headed downtown to watch the World Cup.  Belgium was playing France and the theater down there was broadcasting the game for free.   Mark loves soccer and hasn't been able to watch too many games and really wanted to see this one.  I didn't think Lydia would make it though the whole game so we took two cars and she and I left at half time.  When we walked into the theatre a woman from the local news station stopped us and asked Lydia if she would be willing to answer a few questions about the match.  She agreed and really did a nice job.  She asked her who she wanted to win and why and she said: "Belgium because my Dad wants them to win."  It was cute.  I can't find the official clip but here she is. They sadly did not win but she wasn't too phased by it.  It was nice to go down there, we hadn't gone downtown in a good while and I love community events like that.   Not always sports just people getting together and having fun.  


Wednesday we unexpectedly did a lot of cleaning up downstairs in the basement.  We needed to empty out our storage room and get it organized and to do that we needed to find new homes for a lot of items.  We have pretty much used that space as our "garage" and not cared too much how organized it was.  To be able to organize it we needed to put stuff in our shed and to do that we needed to clean out the shed.  It gets super dusty in there with lots of leaves and wasps nest so it was a big task.  It was so great to get it organized. For the last 2 years Jared has been collecting and storing aluminum cans in there.  We finally loaded them into the car along with their old bikes and donated the bikes and recycled the cans.  He had 15 pounds of cans (about 5 garbage bags worth) and earned about 6 dollars.   When Mark handed him the money he quickly without being prompted gave Lydia 1 dollar.  She didn't collect too many cans but did help and I was happy he recognized that and gave her some of the money.  It was also 7-11 so we stopped at not one but two stores for Slurpees.  It is one of Jared and Lydia's favorite days of the Summer.  We don't really ever go to get Slurpees during the year which makes it more special.  






Thursday we met up with friends at Ivy Creek and then headed down to UVA for the All Comers Track meet that evening.  We have gone every year since we moved here so now 4 years in a row.  It's always a fun community event.  At first Lydia said she only wanted to run the 100m which was perfectly fine but in the end it was nicer weather than we expected and at the last minute she decided to run the 200m too.  Jared originally said he was going to run the 100m 200m and mile but opted out of the mile.  They both randomly placed 5th in both of their races.  Jared was disappointed but happy he participated.  He said that next year he was going to run 2 miles every day leading up to the event. We will see.



 






Friday was mostly basement stuff and house organizing.  I have had to find places for so many things.  Its been fun to organize it all but I am grateful we are almost done.  Something that has been really amazing this Summer is how much fun Jared and Lydia have had together.  We are fortunate that they are never really consistently awful to each other but they definitely know how to bug the heck out of each other plenty.  This whole Summer they have been great friends.  They can't wait for the other one to wake up and play Harry Potter for hours or Barbies, or go in the sandbox or play in the water table, or read books individually but on the same bed together, whatever comes to mind.  Its been beautiful to watch and hear in the background.  And they have been so patient while Mark and I have worked on the basement. 

Saturday we went downtown to try out a new donut shop, Sugar Shack.  It was awesome.  It is our new favorite.  They have great flavors and their staff is super friendly.  We got red velvet, maple, Samoa, and "party time" donuts.  Party time were for Jared and Lydia.  They have Oreos, M&M's, chocolate chips and sprinkles on top.  They were super impressed.   We ate them up and then headed down the street to "City Market", a popular, well established Farmer's Market here.  There are actually quite a few Farmer's Market's here but this one might be the oldest.  I like Farmer's Market's just fine but am always a little baffled when I read about people saying going to the Farmer's Market was their favorite Summer activity.  To each their own.  We tried our best to fit in amongst the goat cheese, all organic produce, Kombachu, and local honey (mostly just by carrying around our reusable bags).  Lydia was the only one who bought something.  A middle school girl had a table with some cute little stuffed animals she had made and Lydia got a mouse.  They quickly named it Scabbers after Ron's mouse.  (Harry Potter has been a HUGE part of our Summer and I am again so grateful to J.K. Rowling)  After the market we headed over to the downtown branch of the library and looked around there for awhile.  



He is a good looking kid. 
And the donuts look pretty good too. 






That afternoon we made it over to Chris Greene Lake to meet up with some friends from Lydia and Jared's classes last year.  A mom in Lydia's class organized it and Jared and Lydia did have fun seeing their friends but were mostly just really happy we finally made it to the lake.  It was closed the first 2 weeks or so of Summer due to harmful Algae bloom but the tests came back clear so it re opened.  I was slightly apprehensive about going but we had a good time.  We took one of our kayaks and Mark and Lydia went out and then I went out.  We haven't gone kayaking in a long time and it was nice to be out again.  We had fun jumping and diving off the dock.  Lydia is a great diver and Jared is almost back to where he was at the end of last Summer.  They re both really proud of themselves for figuring it out.  Diving is really a hard thing to try teach.  At least it was for Mark and I.  Taking kids swimming when they are competent swimmers is pretty great.   



We've really tried to make the most of our time at home.  We leave Wednesday for Iceland and are excited to have another adventure (albeit an expensive one, sheesh! I can't imagine ever going if Mark didn't have family we could stay with and a car we could drive while we are there).  It's been really nice to have this time at home and do some of the things we love here.  I say it all the time but Charlottesville is really a great place to be.  It has been an adjustment to have so many of the people we hung out with leave but we are figuring it out and love this area so much.  Next week will be our 4 year anniversary of living here.  I can't believe how fast the time has gone.  They seemed so little when we got here. 

Here is our first day here and first UVA race   We are so thankful for the memories we have made here. 



   






Sunday, July 8, 2018

Yuba City

My Mom has been waiting to close on and move into her new house since early April.  The family buying her house was using a business/construction type loan and in Yuba City there is only one office that handles that particular type of loan.  Therefore the process was dragged out forever.  When I went out there in March I thought they would be moving 2 weeks from when I went back to VA.  This was not to be the case. Therefore I had a very different vacation in mind when we arranged to spend some time there.  We arrived in Yuba City Friday and the next day when it was 106 degrees outside I helped move my Mom into her new house and then unpack all kind of boxes through the weekend.  That Saturday was June 30th the 1 year mark of my Dad's passing.  In the last year I have been to Yuba City 3 times.  I normally go once in every 3 years so it was weird that I was there so much.  It turned out to be a really good thing though. There was another unexpected factor too.  My Mom has long wanted a dog.  My Dad was dead set against owning a dog.  She picked out a havanese puppy and made plans to pick him up in late July.  Unfortunately the family she was getting the dog from had plans to go camping and let my Mom know that unless she picked up the dog that week they would be taking the puppy with them.  She thought this was a really bad idea as the puppy was so small and it would be so hot out.  So the weekend we got there was moving weekend, the anniversary of his death and there was a new puppy in the mix.  I was well aware of the date but I did not expect the other two events.  

Friday night, our first night there we met up with my brother Davin and his wife Tara and attended their daughter Kaylee's dance recital.  The church they held the recital at was packed!  It was crazy how many people were there and how many students were in each class.  We were originally going to take Lydia too but decided instead to send her Saturday with my sister Katie while we were moving.  That was a good idea.  We got there just before it started and there were no seats.  We found Tara and Davin gave his seat to my Mom but he, Jared and I stood in the back.  The recital was cute.  I love seeing dance performances and there were plenty of cute silly kids.  I also really like taking Jared to events like this.  Kaylee was in dance # 20 of 28!  After the intermission quite a few people left so we did eventually find seats.  I was really glad we could go and support Kaylee.  She was adorable. 



My Mom's puppy (Jamie, named after her brother who died quite a few years ago).  

He is adorable, so cute and little.  Jared and Lydia loved being around him, sometimes a little too much.  It seemed that Lydia sometimes thought of him as more of a stuffed animal than a live dog and there was so much reminding I felt like a broken record but I am really happy for my mom. It was tricky with him being so little though because they didn't want to leave him alone in the house and he didn't have any training really so it sort of constricted when and where we could go.  But again I am really happy for my Mom. 

 There were lots of people from church to help load and unload the moving truck but it was a long process and so hot.  What surprised me the most was the amount of stuff that had not been packed up.  I had no idea how we were going to get it all moved and where it was all going to go in my Mom's new house.  We filled up the van and then for some strange reason instead of placing the boxes in the appropriate rooms everything just got placed in the garage.  Later in the day when Davin finished at Kaylee's recital he came and moved the boxes from the garage into the appropriate rooms and organized the garage which was great.  My brother Derek and I went back over to the house and filled up the van with what we could. We filled it up with enough random stuff that the floor of it was completely covered and there was still stuff in the house.  Not nearly as much but still more that I would have liked.  Derek and I ended up meeting up again on Monday to move the last of the stuff. As far as I know the keys got handed over Friday.  When I left Yuba City there was only the kitchen counters and my sister Katie's closet left to load up.  We spent Saturday and Sunday getting the kitchen unpacked and the hall closets set up and most of my Mom's room.  I wish them luck getting the garage unpacked.  They are already planning on getting another dumpster even though they have already had 3 and holding another garage sale.  So much stuff!  Its crazy.  I am happy I was there to help and felt really useful but it was definitely not the trip I had in mind.  I felt bad for Jared and Lydia because I basically left them to entertain themselves and honestly they did a great job.  I just wish they could have had more time with my Mom but she was busy and tired from moving and needed to watch Kaylee and Alexis all day Monday.  

We did make it to a park to play Monday before it got too hot and Tuesday we got cookies from The Cookie Tree, went swimming at a friends house, picked out fireworks, and got snow cones.  It was great to have some one on one time with my Mom.  




Wednesday we made festive 4th of July waffles, squeezed lemons for fresh lemonade, took a walk to the levee to see the river and went out to lunch at a great Mexican restaurant.  We had plans to go to Davin and Tara's for the 4th of July.  We had a great salad bar and grilled chicken.  The weather was amazing.  I actually went running 2 mornings which was a nice change.  Every 4th of July I remember in Yuba City was always 95 degrees or hotter.  95 was a nice day.  Most years it was well above 100.  This year it was 85 with a nice breeze.  When we went out to do fireworks my family members (who live in CA) all wore sweaters.  It was weird.  Tara and Kaylee had picked out cute glow stick accessories for all the kids which Jared and Lydia loved.  We enjoyed fireworks while eating our traditional root beer floats.  The fireworks were a hit and we had more than enough sparklers to go around. 

When Lydia saw these she said "why are the waffles green?"  They did look less blue than I hoped but oh well.  

The house we went swimming at had lemon, lime and grapefruit trees in the yard.  Jared and Lydia often ask if we can make fresh lemonade so we asked if we could have some lemons from my Mom's friend and she gave us at least 12.  We found a recipe for the best lemonade ever and it did not disappoint.  

Cheers! 

I helped my Mom with some dinner prep and we headed over to Davin's around 5:30.  Dinner was great and it was nice for Jared and Lydia to spend more time with their cousins.  My brother Davin wasn't feeling very well so that was a bummer but it all worked out.  My nephew Cameron came down from Sacramento and it was fun to catch up with him.  He just graduated high school and is really fun around kids.  My other nephew Cade (his brother) came down Monday but was house sitting on the 04th.  We had In-N-Out with him and Cam Monday because why not get it twice in one week?  

Fireworks:  Lots of Davin's neighbors and my Mom's in her new neighborhood lit off fireworks that went up in the sky which was fun to see.  We put on a pretty good show and nobody got injured so it was a success. 




Lydia and Kaylee

Sparklers make great Harry Potter wands. 


We were flying home the next morning and needed to be up by 3:15 to leave by 3:30 to catch the 6:00 am flight to Atlanta so I tried to get Jared and Lydia in bed as quickly as possible.  I think they were in bed and asleep by 10:00, not great but oh well.  We were lucky enough to make our flight (and get first class as stressful as it is) and then get our flight from Atlanta to Richmond where Mark picked us up.  Lydia and I sat by each other and Jared was just one row ahead of us for the Sacramento to Atlanta flight and we had seats all together for the Atlanta to Richmond flight which Jared slept through.  I told them both that they were not allowed to use the screen until they had slept some and they both managed to sleep on that first long flight.  Jared fell right asleep and slept for 2 hours.  Lydia took awhile and then slept for just over an hour.  I was so glad it worked out.  Jared and my Mom sadly ended up with colds.  I was not that surprised about Jared as his sleep schedule has been way different and hope it passes quickly.  Lydia was so happy to see Mark.  She missed him a lot.  Besides him going to Romania last Fall this was the longest either had gone without seeing him and it was hard for her.  There were some definite meltdowns due to this, way more TV than preferred (whatever we were on vacation) and so much unpacking!  But it was nice to spend the time we did get to with my family and I really am glad I was there to help out.  So much of the time I really can't so even if it wasn't in the plan and it was pretty overwhelming (I work at a much different pace than my Mom) it all worked out.  We are glad to be home for the next 2 weeks before our next big trip.