Monday, July 8, 2019

Independence Day

After hanging out with Randall the past 6 week or so we decided we should try to take a trip to Delaware to check out the beach there and visit a state we hadn't spent any real time in.  Since they are moving out of their house there next weekend and I had Thursday and Friday off we decided the 04th of July would be the best time to go.

We drove up to Delaware shortly after I got off work.  We got stuck in all kinds of traffic and arrived there after about 5 hours and 20 minutes.  It was supposed to take 4 hours but we were not so lucky.  It was the longest car ride we have taken for a good while.  I mean we drove around a lot in Iceland but this was a continuous drive not drive, get out and explore then drive again.  Once we arrived Lydia and Jared happily played with Randall and Christa's kids and we enjoyed visiting with Christa.

We were on the road again early Thursday morning.  Jared had woken up at 5:38 so I was therefore awoken then as well.  I went back to sleep for a little while but we ended up leaving their house by 7:45 am.  The beach we chose to go to was about an hour away.  We stopped for donuts on the way in a local diner and all loved the kronut the most.  It's a cross of a croissant and donut and they do a really good job with them.  A steady flow of customers came in while we were eating and we noticed that most of them ordered the cinnamon rolls.  There were very few orders for donuts and while they were fine, I think we should have gone with the cinnamon rolls.  Or more Kronuts.

Kronut on the right.

After breakfast we made our way to Cape Henlopen.  Christa has told me about two beaches in the area.  Rehoboth which is a more commercialized beach with a boardwalk and small amusement park called FunLand and Cape Henlopen, a state park in Delaware.  She warned me that both would be super crowded since it was a holiday so I had my expectations pretty low.  Cape Henlopen appealed to me more because there was more things that I was interested in spending my time doing there.  I am not a go sit on the beach for the whole day kind of person.  At Cape Henlopen there was an awesome paved bike path to explore, a nature center disc golf if we wanted to play, concessions on the beach and some bunkers and observation towers that were used during WWII.

We stopped by the nature center first thing because that is where the bike barn is located.  They have a big shed full of bikes of all sizes that you can rent for free for up to 2 hours.  It was the best.  We hopped on bikes and took off on the path.  It was the favorite part of the "beach trip" for Mark, Jared and myself.  Lydia also enjoyed it but she is more of a go and play at the beach all day kind of person.  She was really the one who wanted a trip to the beach and requested that it be put on our Summer fun list. We biked around enjoying the scenery and stopped to climb up one of the observation towers.  It was actually really hazy when we got there so our view at some points was not awesome but we got a good feel for the area.  It was nice to thin about some of the history of the area and the context of it being Independence day. I do not often think about WWII war efforts here in the US, particularly here on the East Coast as far as look out towers and big guns in place. I tend to think of the Pearl Harbor of course and the horrible internment camps but apparently Delaware was ready to help out if German U boats were spotted nearby.  Getting a little history in there felt good.


This is the Observation Tower we climbed, 120 steps up. (Thanks to Jared for counting) 

After our bike ride we hung out in the nature center for a bit and then made our way to the beach.  As far as beaches go this was not my favorite beach.  The waves were very small and the water was so cold. It was really crowded but I expected that.  Unfortunately the haze was still lingering for the first hour and half we were there and so the lifeguards were not allowing people to be out in the water past their knees.  This made sense because you really could not see far at all but its kind of a bummer when you are at the beach and can't see much of the ocean.  But eventually it burned off and as the day got hotter the water felt better.  Lydia spent so much time playing in the water, she had a blast.  Jared spent most of his time building in the sand but did spend a little time in the water.  Mark and I enjoyed playing catch with our velcro mits and I even read for awhile.  Around 1:30 we figured we had better start packing up.  Besides hanging out of the beach we had plans to go into DC on our way home.






I have long wanted to be in the Capitol for the fireworks on the 04 of July.  It's just one of those things like attend the MACY's Thanksgiving parade.  Lydia also requested visit the National Zoo be added to our Summer list so we decided we would check out the zoo, eat dinner and then find a spot to watch the fireworks.

We left a little later than we hoped and were worried we would not make it to the zoo before it closed but we just squeezed it in.  Sadly we did not see many animals.  There had been thunderstorms throughout the day in DC, it was almost closing and there were fireworks being set off so I think the animals were hiding out.  We really wanted to see the otters and could not spot them.  We did see beavers, elephants and something else.  Lydia asked if we could go again and we will try but I think its more likely we will head back in the Fall when its nicer weather.



We may not have seen many animals but we did luck to with parking!  We got a free spot just  minute walk from the zoo and found another free spot close to the Metro stop we planned to take downtown. The Metro was closed but fortunately there was a free and air conditioned Circulator bus driving close to downtown.  We ate a slow but good dinner at a diner nearby (making sure to get our traditional  Root Beer Floats) and then hopped on the bus.


I had read a lot of articles about places to watch the fireworks, and road closings and parkings and was really conflicted about where to go.  When it came down to it even if it was less convenient I really wanted to be on the National Mall. We walked down there and sadly got to the screening tent too late!  It was about 5 minutes till 9:00 and they were not admitting anyone else in.  This was disappointing.  We ended up sitting on the sidewalk in front of the African American Museum next to the Washington Monument.  So I did get close enough.  The fireworks were great to start but as more went off the cloud of smoke mixed with clouds really blocked the fireworks.  I was so disappointed. I made my family walk all the way down there, couldn't get inside the mall and then could not see the fireworks just a cloud of smoke lighting up with colors.  I mean the first few minutes were awesome and I'm glad we did it but it was not what I expected.  I am not sure if it would have been better somewhere else or if I could convince Mark to try again.

You can tell how much Mark enjoyed the fireworks...



We left before the finale and walked back up to the bus pick up.  We quickly got on a bus and were relived to see our car right where we left it.  We felt pretty good about the spot before we left but still a little worried. Getting out of the city was of course awful but we made it through and I managed to stay awake the whole drive home to keep Mark company. Lydia and Jared started strong, enjoying the glowsticks we meant to wear while watching the fireworks but forgot in the car but were fast asleep within 45 minutes.  They both slept in past 8:30 the next day which was very helpful.

We had a nice Independence day. It was busy and its funny to think that we were in Delaware, DC and then Virginia in one day but apparently this is how we roll these days.  Cram in as much as we can and be together.  I am grateful my family (especially Mark who really did not care to see the national fireworks) was willing and such good sports to go along with my crazy ideas. I am also really grateful I can choose to celebrate how I want and do it with those I love the most.

Friday, June 28, 2019

Friends and the Southern Coast of Iceland

Our plan for our last full day in Iceland was to head to the Southern Coast.  There are so many amazing sites down there.  Before heading out for the day Mark and I got to spend an hour with some of our favorite people from Charlottesville.  After our race Thursday night I posted a picture of the three of us on facebook.  When I got up in the morning I had a comment from my sweet friend Mallory.  She and her husband Kurt were in Iceland same as us, having run the same race the night before (they ran the half marathon!).  Mallory was actually the one who told me about the race over 2 years ago.  They moved to England last year and I have missed them so much.  We had often talked about meeting up in Iceland but because our flights did not go as planned and I was so grumpy I had not reached out to her.  I am so glad I posted that picture and she commented!  We met up for breakfast at this amazing bakery in downtown Reykjavik.  Their baked goods was amazing.  It was a beautiful morning and as we ate outside and visited I was reminded of what great people the Grover's are.  We walked around the downtown area some and had a great time catching up.  It was a definite highlight of the trip for me, easily in the top 5.  It made me realize what wonderful people I have gotten to know and that it is probably time for me to be willing to open up to people, to not be so jaded since so many people move from here.  Yes, I had great friends and I miss them but there are good people here in Charlottesville and I am missing out by not reaching out to people.  It was so fun that we were able to meet up in Iceland having not planned to do it.  It made it even more cool.  After too short of a visit we headed back to the apartment to get on the road.



Mark and Kurt were tennis buddies and Mark definitely misses playing tennis with Kurt.

Brauo & Co Bakery
I so wished we could stop in on way to the airport but it was too early in the morning.


Once we got back to the apartment we loaded the car with snacks and waterproof clothes and headed out.  Our first stop was Skógafoss.  This is one of the largest waterfalls in Iceland.  Online it says it is 60 meters which measures out to over 190 feet.  It's really large and in a beautiful setting. Lydia and Jared loved getting misted and attempting to skip rocks in the creek.


  



More Lupines! 
 I love how they show up on the hills in the background They are hard to see but there are three purple spots, behind the building in the middle. 

After Skógafoss we headed down to the village of Vik I Myrdal.  This was as far South as we would make it.  Vik I Myrdal is a small town right next to the water.  It has a beautiful church on a hill (covered with lupines of course) and a great souvenir shop.  A special feature of Vik is the black sand beaches.  It is also well known as a nesting place for puffins.  Lydia and I really wanted to see some puffins and we were able to spot some out in the water.  They typically fly and nest near the top of the mountains right next to the ocean which means they were too high for us to see from the beach.  I have never been to a black sand beach and it was really neat.  The sun was out and it was the perfect temperature.  We enjoyed watching the waves, checking out the lava cliffs formed by an eruption (*the town is directly South of Myrdalsjokull Glacier which means it is constantly under threat of eruption from the Katla Volcano which last erupted in 1918 so scientist say any day it could erupt again.  The town regularly holds drills and guests staying at the hotel there are forewarned of this!), playing in the black sand, and looking for puffins. It was a great stop.

 






Puffins!

Next up Dyrholaey Peninsula and Reynisdrangar.  These are two awesome rock formations in the ocean.  At the turnoff to them we debated whether we should drive a little out of our way to visit them.  We had left later than planned because of our spontaneous breakfast and stayed at the beach longer but as Mark reasoned why come so close and not see them?  It was a valid point.  We were all happy we chose to go.  To get to the viewpoint you have to drive up a steep gravel road with plenty of switchbacks.  It made Sue very nervous!  But she was very happy once we got to the top. It was breathtaking. The color of the water was so beautiful and it was so fresh and just awesome.

Those rocks pointing up out of the water (on the right) were the same ones we saw from the other side while on the beach.  There are a few stories about them.  The most common one is that they are the petrified remains of three trolls who tried to pull a boat from the water as the sun came up.

Dyrholaey

If you look closely you can see the little circle in the rock formation behind the arch. 


Fun lighthouse.  I Like being able to walk right up to it and see the lights inside. 

Just another glacier in the background. 


At the bottom of the hill you can see some white shapes.  They are hay all rolled up and covered.  They looked like giant marshmallows and were all over the place.  As we drove around we saw green, black and pink ones and joked that they were mint, burnt and strawberry marshmallows.  

Seljalandfoss was our last stop.  This is a famous waterfall that you can walk completely behind.  Mark was really looking forward to stopping there.  We suited up with waterproof pants and rain jackets and got ready to get wet.  We were all really happy we had waterproof clothes!  We got so wet.  Lydia seemed to really enjoy it and loved getting close to the water.  It was really pretty and super neat to walk behind and look out through the waterfall.  About half a kilometer down from this waterfall was another smaller waterfall.  This one was really special because you can't see it very well from the trail.  You walk through an opening into a canyon and can then see the whole waterfall. I was admittedly not very keen on walking down to this waterfall but Mark persevered and the 4 of us made it down there.  Jared weirdly did not got into the canyon (something about his ankle hurting thanks to Lydia) but Mark, Lydia and I did and it was pretty cool and unique. Hats off to Mark who had to push harder than usual to get his traveling companions onboard with everything on his itineraries.  We were so busy!





Lydia, Mark and Jared



Gljufraul Waterfall, the secret waterfall behind the rocks






We ended the night with one more dinner with Einar Sr. and his wife and their son Einar Jr. We ate at a nice hotel in Reykjavik and said our goodbyes.  It was really so nice to get to spend time with them.  They were so kind and helpful and made our trip so nice.  They provided us with a place to stay stocked with food, a car to drive and a cell phone to use.  Any time we needed directions or information they quickly helped us figure it out.  They made time in their busy lives to visit with us and make us feel important.  It was lovely, they are wonderful people.  I am so glad Jared, Lydia and I got to meet them. Einar Sr.  seemed really taken with Jared.  Every time we saw them he gave him a big hug and told him what a nice boy he was.  It was sweet and good for Jared.


Back Row:  Thorey, (married to Einar) Einar (Jr.) Mark, 
Middle: Aprillee, Einar (Sr.) (married to Erna) Erna, Gunnar (Einar and Erna's second son)
Front: Jared, Lydia and Erna (Gunnar's daughter)

Before we left to go to Iceland I read quite a few articles about Iceland. On one of the travel blogs the author commented that you will run out of adjectives to describe Iceland and they were 100% correct.  Its an amazing place.  The landscape is so diverse and so beautiful.  We really enjoyed our trip even if it was frustrating to get there and exhausting.  We were able to see so much but could easily fill another 3 days worth of sightseeing and visiting with Mark's family there.


*https://guidetoiceland.is/best-of-iceland/the-ultimate-guide-to-the-south-coast-of-iceland